In his recent interview with Complex magazine, Miguel shared some secrets on how to get a woman. From the minute you saw her an to the time when you want to take her home.
Read five tips below and learn.
Make Eye Contact:
“I don’t think I have game. I don’t have a mouthpiece like that. If I like you and what I see, then I’m going to try to make eye contact with you. If you make eye contact with me and I feel that there’s a possibility—even sometimes if I don’t feel there’s a possibility—I’m probably just going to approach you and say hello. And really, it’s just, “Hello. How are you? What’s your name?” And then you just ride the wave from there. You have to learn how to surf. I can’t teach you how to do that. You’ve got to learn how to make the conversation work.”
Drink and Joke:
“If you’re at a bar, have a drink if possible. I think keeping it light and joking works really well. If you can make a girl laugh three times within 30 minutes, it’s pretty much over. It’s already a wrap. If you can make her laugh, it’s like [she’s thinking], ‘This is going to be a good time.’ Now all you have to do is be cool.”
Be Assertive, But Not Too Much:
“You want to take the lead, but you don’t want to be overbearing or forceful. You don’t want to turn her off. Let her know what you want. Always be honest. You can be suggestive, but don’t be obnoxious. Then again, some girls need that.”
Don’t Ask, Tell
“When it’s time to go back to your place, it’s never a question. Never ask the question. You just say, ‘Let’s get out of here.’ Don’t say, ‘Do you want to…’ It’s always, ‘Let’s go.’ No second-guessing. Don’t leave it to chance. Just show initiative.”
“Once she’s back at my place, depending on the night, I might pour her up another drink at the house. Or I might run the shower, like, ‘Let’s take a shower.’ Or she might get go sit on the bed. And you already know what time it is. You guys can always play one of my songs. [Laughs.] It’ll make it a little easier.”
So what do you think?